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EMDR Therapy for Trauma, Anxiety & Emotional Healing in NJ & NYC

Specialized trauma treatment to help you move beyond the past and reclaim your life.

When the past still feels present, everyday life becomes a battle.​

​You may look “fine” on the outside while internally fighting memories, triggers, or a constant state of tension.
Maybe you’re exhausted from being on alert all the time.
Maybe relationships feel harder than they should.
Maybe you’ve tried traditional talk therapy and left feeling stuck in the same patterns.

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Trauma — whether from childhood, a single event, or years of cumulative stress — can make you feel disconnected from yourself and unsure how to move forward.

Left unaddressed, these symptoms rarely fade on their own.
They often grow louder, interfering with work, sleep, relationships, and your sense of self.

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You’re not imagining it. And you’re not alone.
We see this every day — and we know how to help.​
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Many of our clients come to us wondering...


Why can't I move on from something that happened years ago?


I don't trust myself, and I don't feel safe anymore.


My reactions feel bigger than the situation. What's going on?


I'm tired of feeling broken. Is there a better way forward?


I want to change, but I don't know how.

These aren't character flaws. They're trauma responses: automatic, protective, and treatable.

At EMDR Associates of NJ & NY, we specialize in helping clients understand these patterns, process unresolved memories, and build a felt sense of safety in their bodies and their lives.

Our Therapists
Headshot of Jeanne Lankin, LCSW, Certified EMDR Therapist providing virtual EMDR therapy in NJ, NY, and FL.

Jeanne Lankin, LCSW

Certified EMDR Therapist (EMDRIA Approved)

Virtual EMDR in NJ, NY & FL

Headshot of Mike Hessdorf, LCSW, GCP, Certified EMDR Therapist offering in-person EMDR in NJ and virtual EMDR in NY and NJ.

Mike Hessdorf, LCSW, GCP

Certified EMDR Therapist (EMDRIA Approved)

In-person EMDR in NJ
Virtual EMDR in NY & NJ

Headshot of Harriet Achtentuch, LCSW, EMDR Certified Therapist and Consultant providing EMDR therapy in NJ.

Harriet Achtentuch, LCSW

Certified EMDR Therapist & Consultant (EMDRIA Approved)

In-person EMDR in NJ
Virtual EMDR in NJ

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Gabrielle Lankin, LMSW

Trained EMDR Therapist 

Virtual EMDR in NJ

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Compassionate, grounding care
Advanced trauma expertise
Collaborative & personalized treatment
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What is EMDR?

EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing) is an evidence-based therapy that helps your brain reprocess painful or overwhelming experiences so they no longer feel as intense, activating, or “present.”

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When something traumatic or deeply stressful happens, your nervous system can stay stuck in survival mode. Even years later, certain sounds, smells, places, or interactions can trigger the same fear, panic, or shame you felt back then.

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EMDR helps your brain do what it naturally knows how to do:
process the memory, file it in the past, and free up your energy for the present.

How EMDR Works

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In EMDR, you and your therapist:

  • Identify a “stuck” memory or pattern

    This might be a specific event, a series of experiences, or a long-standing belief like “I’m not safe” or “I’m not good enough.”

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  • Pair the memory with bilateral stimulation

    Your therapist guides you through gentle, rhythmic left-right stimulation (such as eye movements, hand buzzers, or taps). This activates both sides of the brain and supports adaptive information processing.

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  • Let your brain reprocess the experience

    As you move through sets of eye movements or taps, your brain begins to connect new information, perspectives, and emotions to the old memory. Over time, what once felt overwhelming starts to feel more distant, less charged, and easier to think about without shutting down or spiraling.

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You don’t have to tell every detail of your trauma for EMDR to work. We move at a pace that feels safe and manageable for you.

More About EMDR

EMDR Statistics

EMDR is one of the most researched trauma treatments, with studies showing significant symptom reduction in as few as 6–12 sessions. It is recognized by the WHO, APA, VA, and DoD as an effective therapy for trauma and PTSD.

Adjunct EMDR Therapy

There may be times when clients plateau in standard therapy as there are unprocessed  traumas that block complete healing. EMDR therapy can be offered as an adjunct service to support the work already underway with a client's primary therapist. 

Who may benefit from EMDR?

EMDR can support individuals healing from trauma, anxiety, childhood experiences, relationship wounds, and stressful life events. It’s often helpful for people who feel “stuck,” overwhelmed, or unable to move forward despite previous therapy.

Does EMDR work via telehealth?

Yes. EMDR can be effectively delivered online using secure, therapist-guided bilateral stimulation tools. Many clients find virtual EMDR just as successful as in-person treatment, with added comfort and convenience.

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Ready to begin?

Your past doesn't have to control your future. Let's take the next step together.

Address

658 Ridgewood Road
Maplewood, NJ 07040

Contact

862-224-2616

Opening Hours

Mon & Tues

8:00 am – 5:00 pm

Wed & Thurs

9:00 am – 8:00 pm

Friday

9:00 am – 5:00 pm

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